Is this wanting too much in my relationship?

ok i just want to feel like were both in this relationship, making an affort on both of our parts like becuz sometimes it fells like i would put more effort. i want to feel like the most specialest person in your life, like im the one that you would do anything for, anything. i want to just feel loved everymoment of everyday, and not like that it's a chore for you to love me. i want the pion back in our relationship. i just want to be the number one person in your life, that you would and will drop everything for me. i want to feel like you care what i have to say to you, good or bad. i want you to stop takin what i say in a bad way. i want someone that knows when to put their pride down in situations. if you need someone i want you to know that you can come to me an tell me anything.you want and not feel judged. i want someone that in an agrument thats not worth arguing about they will stop it, but not in a mean way. it may seem like a lot but this is what i want, and i am only asking becuz i will do the same.